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Ephemeral
Brooklyn-based Groupie released their debut LP Ephemeral, a poignant introspection on the fleeting nature of belonging, memories, and idolatry, in 2021, and their propulsive, anthemic single “No Chaser” in 2023. New songs coming soon.
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Bassist and frontwoman Ashley Kossakowski started post-punk band Groupie in 2015 before even knowing how to play an instrument, inspired by icons like Kathleen Hanna and The Raincoats who proved that heart, moxie, and a message are all it takes to start a band. Since then, she’s been joined by drummer Aaron Silberstein and guitarists Eric Rubin and Eamon Lebow and has played to thousands on national and international stages, including Lollapalooza, and opened for acts like Sabrina Carpenter and CHVRCHES as a seasoned touring bassist.
Both the band and Kossakowski have evolved from their DIY punk roots and now create a distinctive blend of post-punk, shoegaze, and surf rock. Raised in the DIY music scene in her hometown of Chicago, Kossakowski often felt like an outsider in the male-dominated Midwest emo spaces she loved. It took years for her to muster the courage to transition from fangirl to frontwoman, but once she did, there was no turning back. Her identity as a queer woman and first-generation daughter of Polish immigrants deeply informs Groupie’s music. Their 2021 debut LP Ephemeral sonically nods to the past, with spoken word verses a la Patti Smith and jangly guitars that call back to NYC 70s punk bands like Television, while exploring contemporary themes of immigration, identity, and displacement on the Polish-language track “Daleko,” a feminist rage fantasy of an abuser getting due punishment on “Poor You,” and the jarring experience of becoming disillusioned with your heroes on “Thick as Glue”.
Known for their electrifying live performances and Kossakowski’s standout stage presence, Groupie has shared the stage with indie greats like Warpaint, Death Valley Girls, and Downtown Boys. In 2023, they released the defiant single “No Chaser,” which features lush production and the bold demand to an aloof love interest: “give it to me straight, no chaser, don’t water it down.” Now working on their next release, Groupie has no intention of watering anything down — expect catchy, impassioned new music soon.
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No Chaser (2023) - Single
Groupie’s single “No Chaser” is a fiery, propulsive anthem fueled by frustration over miscommunication in a relationship. Kossakowski delivers the biting line, “You’re wasting my time, I’d rather spend it on myself,” aimed at someone with a “straight to DVD smile and a straight to voicemail heart.” The track features Groupie’s most layered production yet, blending lush vocal harmonies, distorted guitars, dreamy synths, and a punk edge. Dive bar imagery weaves through both the lyrics and music video, while the plea, “Coddle me with honesty, it’s warmer than deceit,” paired with riff-heavy guitars and an infectious chorus, makes the song both relatable and irresistibly catchy.
Ephemeral (2021) - Debut LP
The album is a deep reflection of the fleeting nature of contentment, memories, and heroes, delving into the complex emotions that arise—where longing and nostalgia coexist with an appreciation for the present. Across 10 tracks, Groupie weaves anxiety-laden meditations on a society capable of delivering both pain and joy, curating an introspective journey through the ephemerality of life's most cherished moments. They honor their 70s NYC punk and riot grrrl roots with high-energy tracks like “Half Wave,” while also exploring a more experimental side with brooding, textured songs like “Waiting” and “Daleko.” The result is a dynamic blend of raw energy and thoughtful contemplation.
Read more on Talkhouse or in American Songwriter.
Validated (2018) - EP
Groupie’s EP Validated delves into the nuanced struggle for validation, from seeking recognition in the eyes of government to earning respect in personal relationships. The EP confronts the challenge of discussing validation, particularly for women, whose vulnerability is often misinterpreted as insecurity or weakness. Through its tracks, Validated raises key questions: What kinds of five-year plans define us as creative or intelligent? How do we quiet the intrusive thoughts telling us we’re not enough? It’s a deep exploration of the pressures and contradictions behind the desire to feel seen and valued.
Read more in the premiere in Paper Magazine.
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Aaron Silberstein
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Drums
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Eric Rubin

“An invigorating collection of post-punk leaning tracks about identity, nostalgia, and female empowerment” - Pitchfork
“Raucous and addictive; endearing, impressive, and essential.” — AV Club
“Daring, infectious” — Paper Magazine
“Ashley Kossakowski has a voice born for Groupie’s brand of art-damaged rock. The singer and bassist for the NYC-based act has a perfect fusion of Slits-esque sing-song, Kim Gordon rasp, and Chrissie Hynde coo—like a more unimpressed version of Bully’s Alicia Bognanno.” — AV Club

Live Shows
Groupie has been playing shows since 2015 and has shared the stage with indie greats like Warpaint, Death Valley Girls, Cafuné, Yaya Bey, Pom Pom Squad, NNAMDï, Ratboys, Thick, White Lung, Priests, Downtown Boys, Bad Moves, Queen of Jeans, Kareem of Subway Takes, Pictoria Vark, Saint Mela, PONY, Melissa Lozada-Oliva, Sadie Dupuis of Speedy Ortiz, Miss June, Empath, Options, Sammus, and Zenizen and have toured with Oceanator.
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